Gabriel’s life is full of contradictions. He hates his own homeland and senselessly admires the culture of the continent. Gabriel exposes his admiration of the continent during the conversation with Aunt Julia, saying “everyone wears them on the continent.” He rejects the offer of Miss Ivors to visit Aran Isles by saying that Irish is not his language and he is sick of his own country. Although it seems clear that he prefers British culture to Irish culture, he hates to be called as the “West Briton.” Accordingly, what he believed to be a true love was in fact not sincere.
At the moment of his epiphany, snow falls down and covers the entire Ireland. Snow could be seen as a symbol that indicates old traditions and contradictions that is covering Ireland. So perhaps it is more accurate dissect “The Dead” with the connection to Ireland.
I personally enjoyed the story, especially the final part with the epiphany in which Gabriel finds out that he and his wife were actually not sharing feelings. After the party, he feels desire for a physical relationship, and he assumes that Gretta is feeling the same. However, he faces the unexpected reaction from his wife and the story about her true love. He finally realizes that he and his wife were not actually very different and distant.
Readers can easily identify with the internal conflict and the epiphany of Gabriel. The Dead depicts the emotion that arises when we are betrayed by things that we so firmly believed to be true. However, these experiences also give us new motivation and serves as a driving force that helps us renew ourselves. For instance, after the epiphany, that his belief that his wife and he shared feelings and were in true live was false, he resolves to set out on his journey westward. Although there is a contention to the interpretation of this phrase, it is very likely that he would change his attitude in a more positive and mature way. Throughout the entire party, he acted like a hysterical and insecure person. At the end of the story, Joyce writes “Generous tears filled Gabriel's eyes. He had never felt like that himself towards any woman, but he knew that such a feeling must be love.” We can see that Gabriel is being repentant and began realizing what a true love is.