I think it was my fate that we were destined to meet. As I get older, my eyesight failed little by little and I needed you. Nobody forced me to use you, but I had to. When we first met, I was surprised and amused that I was able to see all the details about objects which I was never able to do. However, I realized that wearing you made me dizzy. You helped me see things clearer, but you make me feel dizzy at the same time. I guess too much detail through a distorted view is the main cause. I couldn’t comprehend things freely when I was wearing you.
Now I want to tell you my story. When I was young, I had no problem getting along with people and friends. But as I got older, I began to see and concentrate on people’s little foibles rather than trying to understand a person as a whole. This attitude gradually grew inside my mind, causing me to be alone since I began to hate most of the people inside my mind. At first, I couldn’t understand why I was losing my friends at first. When I was having a hard time, you came up in my mind. I thought that the situation was similar to seeing the world through you, my glasses. I realized that I was wearing glasses in my mind. I just considered too much detail, including faults, and thus distorted my mind to assume that most people are bad. I learned that I had to take off my glasses to see and judge people properly. Even a very nice person has some defects. In fact, everyone’s got weaknesses. However, these few defects don’t make a person bad. Soon, I was able to realize that almost every person is nice, when I try to understand them in a broad picture.
Not only limited to relationships with other people, I try to take off the glasses in my mind when I see my life in a pessimistic point of view. I often think that I’m unhappy because of worries and problems that I have. However, our mind sometimes distorts our situation to make the situation seem worse than it really is. Thus, I try to look at my life in a broad and undetailed perspective by ignoring minor troubles that I have, and it helps me regain my will and motivation.
So, I want to thank you for teaching me a very important lesson. Because I don’t use you often, please don’t think that I think less of you. Although you failed to help me with your original purpose, the lesson you gave me about how to deal with people and life is helping me every day. You helped me take off one more pair of glasses that I was wearing in my mind.